I’m understanding more and more how important it is to surround yourself with people that lift you up. That inspire you, believe in you, give you grace when you don’t get it right, cheer for you, keep you going when you want to give up, cover you in love, belly laugh with you, forgive you, don’t take everything so damn serious and hold space for you when you are trying to figure out this crazy awesome life we are all living.

Tony Robbins calls it Proximity.

Who you spend time with is who you become. – Tony Robbins

I’ve been consciously working on Proximity for the past couple of years now.

This last week I had a really rough time personally, you know the weeks you just want to push the easy button!? And then I had a dream I put on a pair of glasses and all of a sudden I could see SO MUCH clearer! It was like I just had to put on a different pair of glasses to see what was the {real} truth.

I woke up and realized what I have created with proximity to my life and it’s blow-your-mind beautiful!

I also realized each one of us has all the support we need, we just have to reach out and grab it. It’s up to us to find the tribe we belong to and let them in! Because the whole truth is, we are so freakin’ loved. In our tribes, it’s ok to make mistakes and we are not alone. I have love warriors in my life that make me a better person just by knowing them. They are teaching me how to be a better friend and person every single day but also they believe I am enough as I am now. This week it was like I was able to collapse into their arms (whether they knew it or not, their love held me) and I experienced a complete trust it would all be ok. #deepbreath

We don’t have to be strong all the time when we have people in our lives that carry us through the hard moments. If you feel alone right now, put on a different pair of glasses and SEE all the love around you. God’s got our back and He shows us the love He has for each of us through each other. We just have to know we are enough to be loved that deeply and receive it!

So the question is, who are you spending your time with? Do they fill you up? Do they inspire you? Do they help you rise and step into {your} greatest potential?

I would tag all of you, but it would be too many people! Just know my heart is fat and full of gratitude!

To my man who holds this full heart of mine, one day I will be able to repay you for who you are in my life and for carrying me through this week when I couldn’t stand alone.

To being held when we need it,



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